Thinking Positive

So many people believe that by simply thinking positive they will get positive results and while it is true that a positive mind can lead to a much better quality of life there is another if not even more important factor to consider when working on creating your best self and manifesting the life of your dreams.

If you really think carefully about the things that you desire whether they are related to an emotional, physical or spiritual aspect you will discover that while you may ponder positive thoughts around improvement within these areas nothing really changes if nothing really changes.

Let me explain!

For example you may desire a career change, maybe you now believe that you have out grown your old job and that you deserve more pay, better location and commuting to work, less hours and to be of even more service to your customers.

And let’s say that the work you currently do is as a cashier in a super market and the job you really want is as a school teacher.

Do you believe that by simply thinking positive that you will be able to achieve your dream career? I didn’t think so.

You see what you would definitely need to if you are serious about being a school teacher is to train in that area. It sounds like common sense really and I do not at all mean to come across as patronizing but whatever you want to be do or have will ultimately take some effort on your part in the form of ‘action’ to achieve it.

There are no short cuts when it comes to being fulfilled and successful. You must take full responsibility for your life as you are the architect of it.

No matter your age, race, gender or educational background up to this point if you want something bad enough you will find a way.

Positive thinking comes in to play when you are working towards your hopes and dreams to encourage you to not give up and sit idol.

By having a strong belief and affirming to yourself on a consistent daily basis that everything is working within your favor it will help you to stay on track when the going gets tough ‘and it will’ trust me.

Create your sacred space and meditate regularly on what it is you want to manifest but along with this power practice you must be willing to act.

Think about your daily activities and ask yourself if they are aligned with your ultimate goal if they are not then reassess what you’re doing and change them.

Anything you want to achieve will mean sacrifice but you can achieve it if you’re dedicated and focused on not only thinking positive but being positive.

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Self Esteem        habits book by victoria grant

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Visualize your Dream Life

Why should you visualize your Dream Life today.

You are responsible for the level of success in your life by deciding what you choose to focus on and you have to create success on the inside before it can manifest outside of you.

If you are ready to create your dream life then the easiest and most fun way that I have found is to use visualization. If up until now you have been receiving things that you ‘do not want’ then it is because you have been focusing aka visualizing things of that manner.

Spend your infinite energy visualizing the life you desire and do this by using real photos and videos. Design a ‘vision board’ complete with your dream body, dream career, health, family, friends, money, partner, charity, holiday destination, amount you want to earn etcetera..

When you know what you are working towards it becomes exciting to get there. Visualize while you look at your vision board, book or video first thing in the morning and last thing at night and feel the emotions of already being, having and doing what you see on there.

Time is your biggest asset so do not ‘waste’ it ‘watching what others have’ as you do not know neither is it any of your business how they attain it. Unless they are a mentor to you or can aid you on your own journey leave them be. There is nothing wrong with using someone else’s success to fuel and inspire your own however just make sure that you are not letting it hinder you by belittling yourself for what you believe you should be, do or have. By visualizing the life of your dreams you are letting the Universe know exactly what to deliver in to your external realm.

And remember that you cannot compare your beginning to another middle or end. Your journey is yours alone!

Your success should never be measured against someone else’s. You are unique and offer talents like no other. ‘Spend’ time wisely focusing on the things you must do to become more useful than you may have been yesterday.

Visualize yourself exactly how you want to be and get clear in your mind’s eye the life you want to live, see the countries you will visit, causes you will support, your loving partner if you don’t already have one and a family happier than ever before.

~ Without a destination you Will arrive anywhere, so plan your journey~

The secret to visualization is to feel the emotions rise up from within as if you were already experiencing those things in the present moment. By doing this often you come to realize that the manifestations are simply a result and that the feeling is what causes the happiness and this you can create no matter what stage in life you are.

So go wild this is your life – and your imagination Think Big!

The more you visualize the easier it will be to create the life you desire.

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‘If you are struggling with creating new habits in your life or suffer from low self esteem check out my books for more advice and guidance to help you prosper in both of these areas.’

Self Esteem        habits book by victoria grant

Stay Motivated

We all have the same exact amount of hours in a day, days in a week, weeks in a month and months in a year so how is it then that some people stay motivated and create what seems like the life of their dreams while others become their spectators.
Which one are you?

We all know the answer to this it lies deep within and I’m sure if you are reading this post then you are hoping at least to be one of the few that also stay motivated and manifest your dream life too.

We can all get motivated at some point when it’s necessary to fulfill an important task or carry out one of our ‘must do duties’ but what about when it comes to fulfilling your own dreams and goals.

If you have ever had a great idea and I am sure that you have had plenty maybe for beginning a business, creating healthier habits, making more of an effort with your loved ones or anything else then I also know that at the start of your quest you were probably full of energy and felt naturally motivated. However after the first few days when the fire inside you began to fizzle that motivation and positive thinking dwindled and your great idea became nothing more than another dream.

So what happened? Well if you want something bad enough then you must be willing to put in all of the necessary work to achieve it and that involves not only positive thinking but also lots of self-love, confidence, and self-esteem as well as a vision of your dream life so you know exactly what you are working on when the motivation disappears.

I like to pride myself on doing what I need to do no matter how I am feeling. Whether tired, sad, angry or frustrated I can always get what I need to do done. I stay motivated by always focusing, strong work ethic and dedication to the task and my ultimate goal.

~Success is a journey consisting of small wins daily~

How to Stay Motivated

Believe that you are your own creator of motivation and understand the power of momentum. Once you begin doing something especially if it is your passion no matter how you may have initially felt about the task eventually you will pick up momentum and finish what you had set out to do.

Completing your tasks fuels your confidence and sense of self-worth immensely and the more you do that the better you ultimately become.

So whatever you are wanting to do, like Nike says ‘just do it’ and when it’s done put a big tick next to that item on your to-do list.

Recommended Reading

‘If you are struggling with creating new habits in your life or suffer from low self esteem check out my books for more advice and guidance to help you prosper in both of these areas.’

Self Esteem        habits book by victoria grant

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